A gentle Dom's view

A Dom is gentle in his strength
and strong in his gentleness.

Thank you all for your notes and wishes. I am doing fine but I’m very busy and I don’t get to posting on here any more. I don’t know if or when I might be back but surely not anytime soon.

If you want to read some of my thoughts, you can find them through my links page or let the random button surprise you.

I hope you are all doing fine and enjoying your time. It is said that this time of the year is the time where you should reconcile with those around you. I think that time is always but if you need a special time for it, now would be good.

I wish you all a peaceful, very Merry Christmas with your loved ones and a very Happy New Year. Should you read this later, there is always a new Christmas coming and I wish you a wonderful time, all year round.

Be the change you want to see in the world.

Anonymous asked: Hi I have been in a d/s relationship for a few months now, and things were going well, however my dom is pushing me into being a slave. I have told him i just want to be a sub, not a slave but he keeps pushing and is making me feel like i am being backed into a corner and that if i don't agree to be his slave, he will not be my dom anymore. How do i make it clear that i do not want to be a slave i just want to be a sub. I am so new to this and really need advice.

As I wrote before, things like “the correct answer is Yes, Sir” are just rubbish. No real Dom wants a doormat to walk over but rather a sub who has her own mind and whose mind he can stimulate in a way that she wants to do what he tells her instead of forcing her into that. To force you into being his slave while you told him you only want to be a sub shows that he is a wannabedom who is not able to respect limits. In that case, you should run fast and get rid of him before he pushes you to do more things that are beyond your limits. You are better off without him. Learn to say No and make sure anyone whom you allow to dominate you knows and respects safewords.

I’ll keep teasing until you just can’t wait any longer.

I’ll keep teasing until you just can’t wait any longer.

(via kamacaim)

Be the change you want to see in this world.

Be the change you want to see in this world.

Nice to see when you show me your needs. Let me see when I might fulfill them.

Nice to see when you show me your needs. Let me see when I might fulfill them.

(via elationandecstasy)