May 2012
Make love with intense passion but fuck with pure raging lust.
– Author unknown (via trampled-rose)
And better yet: combine the two!
What is it about submission that moves you?
I see that my musings on “What is submission?” (http://gentledom.tumblr.com/post/23230834422/what-is-submission) are being reblogged occasionally and so I want to share with you the views of a friend of mine who gave me permission to re-use her answers to her Dom.
Her views are from the submissive’s side, so I think they may complete what I wrote earlier in a way:
My gracious...
Reblog if it's okay to befriend you, ask...
slavesdiary:
Of course it’s ok! :)
I’m not a fan of these reblog things but this one just fits me perfectly. If anyone is interested in my views or has questions regarding anything, wants to hear a second opinion on something, just let me know and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible. Preferably by e-mail (see my about me) but if you don’t want to reveal your address,...
What is submission?
First of all, we are all individuals and therefore, submission is something different for each of us - men and women, subs and Doms, young or old, new to the lifestyle or with a fair share of experiences. So I can and will not claim to give the only possible definition or even explanation but I want to sum up some of the basics that are underlying the concept of submission as I experienced it...
A friend
A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one’s heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away.
- Arabian Proverb -
Vebcha brats
A term I coined recently. It stands for verbally challenging brats and to me, it is a positive term. I’m not a guy looking for a weak woman who just nods to everything I say or do. I like a challenge and if a sub challenges me also verbally, that is just my kind of game. I want to dominate her in all aspects while we are together and to outwit her tongue is part of that. Should I make a...
Diary of the Uppity Wench: Real Doms vs. Women... →
submissivefeminist:
There seems to be some widespread misconceptions or confusion about the true nature of the relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. I am writing this article so novice subs have a way of discerning the abusive posers from the legitimate Doms so they can hopefully avoid any scary…
A good read, novices should be aware of what they might have to face.
A woman...
Thank you all for liking and reposting my entry A Man who…
I’m still new to this site and trying to find my way around, so please bear with me.
Here’s another text I found a long time ago and it completes the other post but read yourselves:
A woman, any good woman, will challenge a man. She will test her boundaries, push and nudge. Sometimes she is obvious, sometimes she is...