A gentle Dom's view

Now I can see your wondering face, literally hear your thoughts racing. ;)

Has he gone insane now? With marguerites (giant daisies)? Really?

Yes, really.

While answering the latest anon question, I recalled a very intense session I had with a sub. She was blindfolded, lying on the bed and then I went to get the marguerites that I had hidden earlier. I caressed her at many places except for “the three” and then started tying her up with the marguerites. At first, I could see her thoughts racing like yours did when you read it. What is he doing now? But then, she realized what it was and she lay still during the whole session making sure she would not break a single one of them.

It showed to me that my guts are right and I do not need a whole collection of toys, ropes, whatever to have an intense experience. When I’m with a woman, the two of us alone is what makes a session wonderful and if I use a toy occasionally that may spice things up but it is not the core of what we do. Our bond is strong enough to have her bound by my will, not by ropes and thus, marguerites are easily strong enough to keep her in check.

Keep it simple, don’t overdo with masses of toys, get back to the basics - and most of all:

Have fun, lots of it!